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尤其现在大了知道要东西了,看上玩具不给买就耍赖。我们宁愿节衣缩食也要让宝宝吃好穿好玩好,不委屈着娃一点点
But spoiling children with material things does little to reduce parental guilt (since parents never feel they've given enough), nor does it make children feel more loved (for what children really desire is parents' time and attention). Instead, the effects of providing too much can be harmful. Children may, to some degree, become greedy, selfish, ungrateful and insensitive to the needs and feelings of others, beginning with their parents. When children are given too much, it undermines their respect for their parents.
译文“给孩子太多物质的东西,并不会减少父母的内疚感(因为父母永远不会觉得给的足够多了),孩子也不会觉得父母特别爱他(因为孩子真正想要的是父母的时间和关心)。相反,给孩子太多东西是有害的。孩子也许在某种程度上会变得自私,贪心,不知感恩,也不会学习关心他人,而这些都来自于父母的娇宠。当你给孩子太多东西的时候,孩子反而不会很尊重你。
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